Moments of Wonderful

…rather than a lifetime of nothing special. A diabetes blog.

Moments of Wonderful - …rather than a lifetime of nothing special. A diabetes blog.

Diabetes Blog Week: Guilt is not better

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about guilt. Diabetes provides countless opportunities for feeling guilty.

The feelings can start the minute that we recognize diabetes has entered the picture – the very minute.

Why didn’t we go to the doctor sooner? Why didn’t we recognize the symptoms? When the doctor dismissed us, why didn’t we press harder? We knew that diagnosis was wrong (or we didn’t know, why didn’t we know?), why didn’t we fight him? What if there’s been damage? What if there are complications? I should have fought harder! I should have known better!

It doesn’t matter if those thoughts come from the parent of a child with diabetes, from someone diagnosed as an adult, or any category in between. No matter where it comes from, it’s wrong. It’s all lies.

We all did the best we could. Now we know better. Now we do better.

It’s as simple as that.*

know better do better

*It IS as simple as that. Sometimes it’s a little bit harder to REMEMBER that it is that simple.

Yesterday we opened up about how diabetes can bring us down. Today let’s share what gets us through a hard day. Or more specifically, a hard diabetes day. Is there something positive you tell yourself? Are there mantras that you fall back on to get you through? Is there something specific you do when your mood needs a boost? Maybe we’ve done that and we can help others do it too?

  • Rachel says:

    Yep, looking at the past does not move anyone forward towards acceptance.

    May 15, 2014 at 7:15 am
  • StephenS says:

    Love that quote.

    May 15, 2014 at 11:37 am
  • Kelley says:

    Oh I love that quote! I’ve never heard it before. Thanks for sharing :)

    May 16, 2014 at 9:16 am
  • Charity says:

    Maybe’s life sure is full of them! I know that I’ve had a lot of what if and why questions when I look back on my daughter’s diagnosis. And while the guilt has a strong hold, I’m able to say now I did the best I could at that time. And I’m glad that I pressured doctors and nurses in the end. Thanks for sharing!

    May 21, 2014 at 5:25 am

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